Love is patient, love is kind

The one-room rental flat was a tight space for Mr Yeo and his son. In the main room, a hospital bed dominated the space. Across from it lay a single bed frame and mattress against the wall, and a wooden wardrobe, set aside for someone who wasn’t there.

Living alone poses quite a challenge for Mr Yeo. Physical impairments and weakness in his limbs meant simple chores or getting around independently were difficult. Other in-home services stepped in twice a week for housekeeping and an assisted shower, but the companionship he craved was missing. That would hopefully change in 2028, when his incarcerated son completes his sentence.

As the volunteers worked, Mr Yeo sat nearby on his Personal Mobility Aid, overseeing the work being done in his home. He was relieved to see old, pest-infested furniture and items removed from his home. He was adamant about one thing: his son’s belongings. “These items, while they do not belong to me and I cannot make the decision to throw or declutter items that aren’t mine, please pack them neatly together and aside for now.”

He spoke lovingly of his son and described how he anticipates having companionship and not having to live alone anymore. Having his belongings in the home serves as a tangible reminder and hope for his son’s return.

Mr Yeo had gone out for breakfast earlier than usual that morning, eager to be ready for the volunteers' arrival. He sat at the entrance of his flat, enjoying conversations and sharing a laugh, clearly delighting in the company. When the team gathered for a small group reflection and photo, he asked if he could join in. Despite being hard of hearing, he leaned in to try to hear the volunteers as best as he could.

“I am so thankful for the volunteers. They have been so kind, so helpful, patient and caring towards me,”

he said, his voice warm and full of heartfelt appreciation. He was speaking of the team of Habitat Singapore volunteers who had just spent the morning decluttering, disposing of heavy furniture and re-organizing his home.

More than just a clean and pest-free home, we saw a glimpse of Mr Yeo’s hope and anticipated reunion packed away neatly in his home, waiting lovingly and patiently for 2028.

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Your hands-on volunteer support and kind donations are vital in helping us make a tangible difference for vulnerable individuals like Mr Yeo through our home rehabilitation programme, Project HomeWorks. Come be part of meaningful and transformative change with us!